Thursday, April 15, 2010

Happy Anniversary

April sixteenth marks Dad and Mom's 74th Anniversary.  They were married in the Salt Lake Temple with not a single member of either family attending the wedding.  It was just a long distance to Salt Lake and everyone had other things to do.  Such was the life of farming families during the 1930s and the Great Depression.  Uncle Ivan had taken them to Salt Lake where they were married.  I rembember Mother telling me of how she walked down to his place on the crusted snow over the fences there in Liberty to begin the trip with Dad to Salt Lake City.  They were gone just a few days and when they returned it had turned much warmer and the snow was almost all gone with snowmelt run off water everywhere.  They then made their home in the old Arthur Eborn home in Lanark.  I'm so glad they were married and that a temple marraige was important to them.  I know that as a result we were all born in the covenant and are heirs to the great blessings promised if we are faithful.  I appreciate the example of love, hard work, sacrifice, and complete fidelity that they gave to all of us.  We were indeed born of goodly parents!!
There was no wedding picture that I am aware of,  but fortunately we have some pictures taken at various other stages in their married life.

This picture was taken on their wedding anniversary 1n 1960.


The picture above shows them together in 1980.
Here they are in 1986 at their golden wedding anniversary party which was held in the Liberty Church.  This event was attended by many family, neighbors, and friends.  It was good to be there and honor them, but I think the best thing we can ever do to honor our noble parents and grandparents is to live honorable lives ourselves.

by Bart

Monday, April 5, 2010

Milking Cows and Drinking MIlk

I have often reflected on the circumstances of my youth and I am sure that most of you have been affected by many of the same things that I was to one degree or another. One of the things that was a constant throughout all of our growing up years was the morning and evening ritual of milking the cows. Mother had been raised on one of the larger dairy farms in the area and Dad undoubtedly had his share of experiences with milking cows from a very early age. I remember Dad telling about how he helped Uncle Leo Passey with his milking and chores beginning at a very tender age, probably around eight. For most of the families in Lanark, a few dairy cows were almost a way of life. They provided a living for nearly all of the families in town, and for that matter throughout the Bear lake Valley. Almost every family had a few milk cows to go along with the other farm animals. One of the older men in town once spoke of a very fundamental economic prinicple, which seemed to govern most of the families in Lanark, whether they were aware of it or not. His name was David Orr and though he was no great philosopher, he did have things figured out fairly well so far as the basics go. He used to say that in order to survive in Bear Lake Valley a family should have one cow for every two kids in the family. This, of course, was basic subsistance economics, but it was probably quite true. Cows provided not only milk, but cheese, cream, and butter. Each cow had a calf every year which would then be raised and later either added to the dairy herd if it was a heifer or slaughtered and turned into beef if it was a bull. The hide was then used for everything from making shoes to harnesses for the teams. I didn't always appreciate the milking or the cows for that matter nearly as much as a perhaps I should have done. We always had plenty of milk to drink. Yes, it was raw milk and we didn't get TB or any other malady from drinking it, contrary to the concerns of more modern society. I well remember how good mother could make a little stale homemade bread covered with milk gravy and maybe a little sausage or bacon mixed in together with a couple of tablespoons full of homemade chili sauce and a little salt and pepper taste. I well remember watching Mom or Dad standing at the seperator and hand turning it as the cream was separated from the milk. I remember the old wooden churn which was used to churn butter from the cream and I remember the good taste of fresh buttermilk. Mother grew up milking cows and making cheese on her father's farm in Liberty and though I don't recall her making much cheese at our place, I do remember that on occasion she would make a batch of cottage cheese, which ,when salted, was very good to the taste.
If a farmer could get enough milk cows and was able to provide feed and a barn for them, it seemed to be one of the biggest indications that he was prospering. For most of my growing up years we had a herd of milking dairy cattle which numbered about ten to twelve and eventually grew after I was grown and no more living at home to more than fifty cows. Of course in the early days the cows were milked by hand, but for most of the time that that was one of my duties we had vacuum milking machines which did most of the work for us. The machines also made it possible for farmers to milk more and more cows which added to the family prosperity. The milk was poured into ten gallen milk cans and kept as cool as possible until morning when the milkman made his daily rounds and hauled the milk to the creamery near Paris where it was sold and made into cheese and other dairy products. Nearly every farmer sent their milk to this creamery which was a co-operative business owned by the dairy farmers themselves. There were other creameries in some of the towns around the Valley. There was one in St.Chalres and Bern, and Geneva just to name a few.
MiIking the cows was a chore, of course, but it wasn't as bad as we often pretended it would be. Above is a picture of a hungry kitten being fed by squirting milk directly into its mouth as the cow is being milked. I remember Ellis and I having milk wars across the barn when we were milking at the Lyme Hymas farm.
To some it may seem a little digusting, but to me that was milk that actually tasted pretty good. Speaking of the Lyme Hymas Farm, it was located about two and a half miles from our place and belonged to an elderly farmer by the name of Lyman Hymas. He and Dad were pretty good friends and one day Dad came home and announced that he was going to lease the Lyme Hymas Farm. This he did when I was about nine years old and Ellis was about twleve. The Lyme Hymas Farm was considerably bigger than ours and more properous. He milked about twenty cows. From this point on Dad would get up early in the morning and head to the Lyme Hymas place to do the milking and chores that needed to be done there. This left Ellis and me to take care of the milking, feeding etc. at the home farm. I remember rising very early, bundling up, and going to the barn with Ellis to milk the cows, feed the new calves, and the cattle before breakfast and then hurrying to catch the school bus at the end of the lane. This didn't happen just once in a while. Dairy cows have to be milked twice a day, no matter what, and we both soon came to understand what responsibilty was. I think we may have occasionally complained, but we never even considered it as a possibility to get out of our chores and milking the cows. We felt needed and that made a huge difference I think in the way we approached life and probably helped shape our work ethic as much as any other thing. It is important to be and feel needed. The picture below shows Dad in front of the first dairy barn that we had. It was not a very good building. It had a wooden board roof which leaked profusly and a wooden plank floor which held us up and allowed the barn liquids to seep down between the planks. I can still remember walking along these planks and watching the fluids come up through the cracks. Eventually this barn burned down for some reason. I think it may have been an electical fire. I recall being awakend in the middle of the night and told that the barn was on fire. Dad and some of the neighbors tried in vain to put out the fire, but to no avail. After this we had to milk the cows outside in the corral until a new barn could be built . This went on for several months and I remember, that Mom would come down and help us milk. Dad had tried very hard to save her from this task after they were married, but she kenw how to milk a cow and she was not afraid to pitch in and help, especially during this difficult time after the old barn burned down. Finally a new and larger barn was finished and it had a cement floor. This was a vast improvment over the old one that had burned to the ground. Sometimes our hardships turn ito blessings. Such was the case when the old barn burned down.

This gave us more room for growth and the dairy herd began to increase in number up to about 15 or 18 cows. This was a good sign and our little family seemed to be prospering a little more as the time went by.
We now were milking cows in a more modern place and using a more modern method similar to what is seen in the pictue below.  Sometimes, what may seem like a minor tragedy turns out for the best as was the case of the old barn burning down.  It took some time and a lot of effort and I'm sure probably more money than Dad and Mom had at the time, but we all pulled together and things seemed to turn out for the best. At least we moved past Dave Orrian econimic theory of economics  and operated at at a little different level.  It was still work and there was no getting away from it, the cows still had to be milked twice a day, morning and night as regular as sunrise and sunset.
Below we see the miricale of the milking machine at work.  Most cows could be milked in five minutes or less with little physical effort.  The milk was also of a better quality, uncontaminated by the human hand.  The milk was then poured through a stainer into ten gallon cans.
The ten gallon cans were made of a type of stainless steel and looked very much like the ones below.  During the course of my growing up years I remember setting as few as two and as many as eight milk cans full of milk out by the road to be picked up by the Milkman.  By the way, one of the men who hauled milk to the creamery was, Uncle Ivan Hymas, Mom's brother.  It was fun to have him drop by every day to pick up  the milk, though our meetings were always short.  He needed to get on with his work.  It seemed like he was always singing a song of some sort in spite of having to lift the heavy milk cans into his truck.

Our milk cows were mostly Holsteins, similar to the one you see below.  They produced a lot of milk if they were cared for properly.  Sometimes a good cow could produce as much as ten gallons of milk a day for a while after having a calf.  The cows calved annually and taking care of the calves was another project that most of us kids were involved in at one time or another.  Getting the cows from the pasture was another chore that took place twice a day in summer.  In the winter the milking cows were kept in the barn and fed right where they were milked.  Another thing we learned to do was to fix fence and keep the cows from getting into the alfalfa and bloating.  We did see some failures in this and as a result lost a few cows who died from eating too much alfalfa to fast.  This was always a sad time and a major loss for a stuggling family on the small dairy farm.

At one point in Dad's dairying experience he  tried a different beed of cattle.  The Ayrshire cow was a rather handsome animal, red and white, rather than black and white like the Holstein.  There were a couple of reasons behind Dad's thinking in this regard.   They were supposed to be a little more hardy than the Holstein, and  they produced milk with a higher butterfat content and therfore worth more money at the creamery.  This was only an experiment and, though we milked some Ayrshires for a few years Dad gradually returned to nearly all Holsteins.  A prize Ayrshire cow is pictured below.

Eventulally the barn we built was replaced by an even more modern system, a milking parlor with a refrigeratted tank that held four or five hundred gallons of milk.  Mark and I helped Dad with most of the building after Iris and I moved back to the Bear Lake Valley. We also built a large red metal loafing shed for the milk cows.  Dad was proud of his new system even though it was more costly and had been a big decision for him at the time it was built.  Dad and Mom were getting older by this time and the kids were pretty much gone and I suppose they could have just called it quits and gone to raising beef or hay and grain or someting else, but they were never known as quitters and this was not their reaction at this turning point in their lives either.  Below you will see Dad in his cowboy hat, Dad loved a good cowboy hat, in front of the new milking parlor.  It was kept very clean and Dad spent a lot of time there night and morning. Mom also returned to the barn, I 'm sure mostly to be with Dad while he worked after all the kids had grown up and moved away.  Reed painted the Holstein cow which  was placed atop the milking parlor.

Below is a picture of a stainless steel refrigerated milk tank similar to the one that was installed in the milking parlor.  It held over five undred gallons of milk and was picked up by a large tanker truck every other day.  I remember this tank filled nearly to overflowing on many occasions.

The picture below was taken of the Eborn farmstead after Mark moved back to Lanark and bought the farm from Dad and Mom.  It was taken by our cousin, Kay Hymas, who had an airplane and would always buzz our place when he came to Bear Lake to visit his parents, Calvin and Venna Hymas, who lived in Sharon.  It shows a vast change from the day Dad and Mom bought the farm and to me shows that Dad and Mom were excellent stewards of what they had.

by Bart

Monday, March 22, 2010

Happy Birthday Brenda!!!

Brenda was born March 25, 1943 to Darrell and Edna Hymas Eborn.  She was born in the old Montpelier Hospital, which occupied the upper floor of a store building in Montpelier.  She was the first daughter and third child in the family.  At the time of  Brenda's birth the family was still living in the small, two-room log home on Lanark Lane.  It was very crowded, but we managed to get by and Dad and Mom began to make plans for a different home.  Brenda was a pretty little girl and was a joy to her parents.  Dad came up with an original little song which he always used to sing to Brenda.  It went something like this: " B-R-E-N-D-A, I sure love you today."  I can still hear Dad singing this to her in my mind.  The picture below was taken when Brenda was one year old and is the earliest picture of her that I am aware of.  It was kept in Mom's Book of Remembrance.

Brenda has posted another picture of her and Nina elsewhere in this blog (see The Girls).  It is the only picture of the two of them together as young children that I am aware of.
This a picture of Brenda during her years at Fielding High School.  Brenda was a very good student, one of the best in her class.

Brenda as a young woman,  I'm not quite sure of the age, but my guess is that it was taken shortly after she graduated from Fielding High School in Paris in 1961.


Brenda met her future husband, Dean, while they were attending BYU in Provo.  After a short courtship they were married and have been happily married ever since and have raised a wonderful family which has brought great joy to them.  Dean was born and raised in McCammon, Idaho.
Brenda and Dean and the beginning of their family, baby daughter, Myrna.


Same family on a vist to Grandma and Grandpa's about two years later.  Myrna is starting to grow up already.  After Dean graduated from BYU he took a job as a PE and health teacher and coach at South Fremont High School in St. Anthony, Idaho where they raised their family of three boys and three girls.

As ayoung child, I remember being very fond of my little sister,Brenda.  We would walk around the yard and the farm holding hands, exploring, and playing together for many hours every day

by Bart

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Other Memories of Ellis and Jeannine's Family

Dad and Mom loved their grandchildren and were happy to know that their own children also were having families of their own.  Ellis, of course, was the oldest and so he got a head start on the rest of us so far as  having children and thus grandchildren for Mom and Dad to enjoy.  Unfortunately, they were in the Air Force for much of the time the children  were very young and so they only got to see them occasionally.  They were very proud of Ellis and his family.  Below are the pictures that were kept in Mom's Book of Remembrance.
The pictures in no way reflect the full measure of love and concern they had for all Ellis' family, but are indicative of some of their feelings toward them.  I know these are just a few of the many pictures and memories that could be shared.  Feel free to go into the blog and edit it or add to it as you desire.

Ellis married Jeannine Armitage from Motpelier, Idaho.  He had just completed his sophomore year at Utah State and she had just graduated from Montpelier High School.   They were married in the Idaho Falls Temple on August 30, 1957. 
Gergory was their first child.  He was born while Ellis and Jeannine were going to school at Utah State.
Here  he is wearing his Dad's Air Force hat.  Cute kid!
Here we see Greg and his little sister, Jeanne, taking a bath together.  What siblings have not done that?

Greg and Jeanne starting to grow up.


Here is Greg, a grown man, with his bride, Laura Wilson.

Greg and Jeanne's little Sister, Lory Lynn.

Jim and Jeanne Eborn Haddenbach

This picture was taken at one of the family reunions and depicts the love Dad had for his grandson, Christiopher,and Chris for his Grandpa.

by Bart

Monday, March 8, 2010

The Lanark Eborn Kids

Here are the four oldest children of Darrell and Edna Eborn,  Brenda and Nina in front and Bart and Ellis in back.  We are all dressed up for church at the old Lanark Church House.  That building is gone now and I don't have a picture of it, but it was there that much of our early childhood religious traning and the beginnings of our testimonies of the Gospel of Jesus Chtist and traditions began.   One thing I remember distinctly about that Church House was that it was never locked.  I'm not sure there was even a key to the building. The same was true of every home in town.  I think that says something about the times we grew up in and the community we called home.  We belonged to the Lanark Ward then.  I remember well the Sunday activities with friends and neighbors.  We rarely, if ever, missed going to Church on Sunday and Mutual on Tuesday nights, even on bitter cold and snowy winter days and nights .  They would let school out a little early on Wednesdays and the school bus driver would drop us off at the Church for Primary.  I miss the closeness that we had with other ward members and neighbors. We've had lots of good friends because of the Church everywhere we have lived, but the ones I seem to remember the most were those who lived in Lanark and took an interest in us when we were young.
Here we are ready for Church again on a beautiful summer day.  Mom had away of keeping a beautiful petunia patch in front of the house and down along the east side of it.  I remember her doing this right up until she could no longer live alone at home.  Maybe that is where I gained my love of petunias and flowers in general.  This is another photo of Mom's "staircase".

By Bart

Friday, March 5, 2010

Ellis as a Child and Growing up

Happy Birthday, Ellis.

Some reminisences of my big brother, Ellis
Ellis was born just short of a year after Mom and Dad were married.  He was born at home in the old Arthur Eborn home in Lanark on March 6th 1937.  Mother told me that after he was born she thought she was the luckiest and happiest woman on the face of the earth.  It was while Ellis was still an infant that Dad and Mom bought the farm over on Lanark Lane.  They began to work the farm and  Mother told me of how she had a baby buggy which she used to push Ellis over to the farm on the gravel roads so she could be near where Dad was busy working.  Then after a time they would walk home together for the evening.  This went on until they were able to move the log cabin home which was over in the field across the slough over next to the road on Lanark Lane.  I can still hear Mother talking about how Ellis would lay in the buggy and goo until he went to sleep.  This was a time of great happiness in the lives of Mom and Dad.  They were beginning a family and also having a home and a farm , which they could call their own.  The home and the farm were a project as they were quite run down and there was a tremendous amout of work to do.  A well had to be dug and yes, Dad dug our well with his own shovel.  It was a shallow well, only about twenty feet deep, but it provided water for the family for many years.  I can only imagine what a job it was to dig a well with a shovel even that deep.  The farm work and fixing up that old cabin to make it livable were not the only challenges.  Starting a family there on that dusty knoll was a challenge in and of itself.  I think Dad was especially glad that their first child was a boy.  Heaven knows, they needed another set of hands to do all of the work.  Ellis grew up in that environment and it was at a very young age that he was doing a lot to help out around the farm.  I know Dad was glad to have a little man around partly for the company and partly for the work he could do. Ellis learned to drive a team of horses on the plow and the rake and other farm implements.  He learned to herd and milk cows and to feed calves, pigs and chickens.  He was a very good worker and very responsible for his age.  He was a very good looking child.  In fact, he was the best looking kid in the whole family for over three years.  Then I came along and he had to relenquish that title.  Ha, Ha,  Actually, in my eyes, Ellis was such a big, strong boy and there was nothing that he couldn't do.  I grew up kind of in his shadow because he was older, bigger, stronger, smarter, and maybe he was really even better looking.  Anyway, he was my big brother and I looked up to him.

This is a picture of Ellis as an infant.  It was kept in Grandma's Book of Rememberance.

This is Ellis when he was a young child, about three or four years old. Mom used that old curling iron on us all, I think.  He really was cute, now that I take a little closer look. It's not hard to see why Mom and Dad were so happy with their firstborn son.

Ellis attended school for the first two years in the Lanark School.  He has written elsewhere about this.  Later he went to Paris to Emerson Elementary School through the eigth grade.  He was elected as the Studentbody President of the school when he was an Eightgrader.  Mom and Dad were very proud of their son.


He attended high school in Paris at Fielding High School.  He was active in spoorts and played basketball on the High School team.  I remember one big game he played in.  It was against Montpelier High School.  They were the biggest of rivals and as I recall, the score was 62-50.  The Fielding Spartans defeated the highly favored Montpelier team at the Fielding High School Gymansium.  I can still see, in my minds eye, the gym filled to overflowing with wildly screaming high school  basketball fans.  These were fun memories for everyone who attended.

Ellis graduated from Fielding High School in 1955 and then attended Utah State Agricultural College in Logan that fall.  He was also a graduate of the LDS Seminary program.


Mom used to call us a stairway in this picture.  It was taken before Mark was born, but about the time
Ellis was a Junior in High School.  One can easily see why we felt, at times, we were in his shadow, he was the first and he was the bigest and the strongest. What's more he never let us forget it.

When Ellis was tewnty he married his sweetheart, Jeannine Armitage, from Montpelier in the Idaho Falls Temple.  They moved to Logan where they started a family and Ellis continued his education at Utah State.
At Utah State Ellis majored in geology and also was involved in the Air Force ROTC program.  Upon graduation he was commissioned a Second Leutenant and began flight training as a navigator.  This picture was taken by Mom and Dad when they went by train to visit Ellis and Jeannine where he was stationed in Texas. Here they are with their first two kids.  Gregory and Jeanne were the custest kids I think I had ever seen.  Anyway, I was a proud uncle.

Here are Ellis' children, Gregory, Jeanne, Lori Lynn, and Jonathan.  Christopher had not yet been born.
Cute kids!!



by Bart

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Our Extended Eborn Family

Last week I recieved a phone call from our cousin, Janet Mumford, who lives in Soda Springs.  She informed me that her mother, Aunt Helen Rae's husband, had passed away.  He was ninetythree and had been in a nursing home for some time so it was not unexpected.  Iris and I decided to go the the funeral this past Monday, since we had nothing else on the agenda and wanted to pay our respects to Aunt Helen Rae.  She was glad we came and even gave us a special call on Wednesday thanking us for coming.  Her husband, Harry was a very nice man and they had a wonderful service for him.  He was buried in Burley where he had lived before he met Aunt Helen Rae.  Uncle Dean Larsen, Aunt Helen Rae's first husbsnd had died many years before.  I think he was in his fifties at the time.  Aunt Helen Rae had lived as a widow for a long time before she met Harry and was married to him.  They seemed to have a very good relationship and visited friends and relatives in the Bear Lake Valley quite often until Harry became incapacitated.  They visisted us quite often in Montpelier, especially during the time that Mother lived with us.   One time, at Harry's suggestion, they even brought us a lunch to have while they were there visiting.

     As a result of our being at the funeral and seeing some of the Eborn cousins and family. my thoughts turned to Grandpa Arthur and Grandma Nina Eborn.  They raised twelve kids to maturity in a small frame home in Lanark.  They all married and had families of their own.  Most of these were relatively large families and now the posterity of Arthur Phipp and Nina Passey Eborn numbers well over a thousand.  Much good has been done by this extended family and I'm sure they are looking down with pride on their posterity and also wish some of us would get on the ball and shape up and be a little more involved with one another.

I found a few pictures which I will share on this blog and hope that some of the readers might have a comment about their memories of the extended family, or maybe a few questions that some of us might be able to answer for the rest.
This is a picture of Arthur Phipp Eborn and Nina Louise Passey Eborn on their wedding day.

Here they are fifty years later on their golden wedding anniversary.
This is the home in Paris where they spent the last part of their lives, after having lived in Lanark for the first part of their married lives.  This is the home I remember when I visited them often as a youth.  It was right across the street from the Emerson Elemantary school where we all went to school up through the eigth grade.


This is a picture of Grandma and Grandpa Eborn's children and their spouses.  They are left to right,  Alice and Seth Moser, Darrell and Edna Eborn, LaMar and Vesta Eborn, Willard and Blanche Eborn. behind Aunt Blanche is Aunt Fern and next to her is Uncle Weldon, Next to Uncle Weldon is Uncle Dean Larsen and just in front of him is Aunt Helen Rae Larsen.  Next to Uncle Dean is the youngest in the family, Uncle Worth and his wife Aunt Nina, Grandma Nina Louise Passey Eborn and Grandpa Arthur Phipp Eborn are in the front and center of the picture.  Next to Grandpa Eborn is Uncle Harlan and his wife, Aunt Agnes,  is just behind him.  Next to Harlan, is Aunt Opal, who recently died just ten days short of her 99th birthday and Uncle Hugh Shephed directly behind her. Next ot Aunt Opal is Aunt Velda Michaelson.  Her husband, Alton, was apparently missing from this photograph. Directly behind Aunt Velda is Aunt Elizabeth (Lizzie)Eborn.  She was married to Uncle Virgil Eborn, who is also missing from this photograph.  On the far right are Aunt Golda and Uncle Clifford Skinner.  This large family was fortunate enough to live relatively close to one another in the Bear Lake Valley for most of their lives.

By Bart